The Feminine Who Knows Her Power Doesn’t Chase—She Sets the Tone, and the Masculine Responds

 

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The Feminine Sets the Tone

  

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You're not broken. You're not too much.

 

But you might be exhausted from always being the one holding everything together. You’ve read the books. You’ve tried to be soft. You’ve set the boundaries, stayed in your feminine, said the right things.

And somehow, you still feel like you’re either:

 Attracting men who seem available at first—then fade when real intimacy is required.

Carrying the weight of emotional labor—initiating talks, managing the connection, holding space for both of you.

Feeling invisible in your softness—like no one sees how much you long to be met.

• Looking at your marriage or relationship wondering, how did I become the one holding all of this?

Knowing you want to shift the dynamic now—but not sure how to break the pattern you helped create.

Because the truth is: you’re not crazy for wanting to feel pursued. Protected. Chosen. Provided for.

And deep down, you know you were never designed to lead with effort—you were designed to lead with your energy.

 

Let me guess...

You’re the one sending the long texts, fixing the problems, initiating the deep talks. You’re helping him “grow,” giving him space, praying he steps up —
but deep down, you're beginning to feel more like his mentor than his cherished woman.

Or maybe you’re not even in a relationship—just tired of always being the strong one. You carry it all. You rarely ask for help. And when someone does offer support? You feel guilty, awkward, almost undeserving of it.

You’ve tried to “be feminine”… but in the real world you’re a nurse, a teacher, a leader, a mom. You know how to protect yourself, speak up, get things done. Softness doesn’t feel realistic—it feels unsafe.

But here’s the truth:
You don’t need another list of tips.
You need the actual shift—the one that happens in your body, in your nervous system, and in your energy—so that receiving feels natural. Safe. Magnetic.

That’s exactly what this masterclass is going to unlock for you.

Here's the truth you were never taught:

  

You, the feminine, set the tone for every relationship in your life.
Not by force. Not by fixing.
But simply by the way you are.

Your nervous system is speaking louder than your words.
Your energy—how you show up emotionally, spiritually, physically—is the seed you plant.
And the fruit? Life mirrors it right back.

The masculine doesn’t just “lead.”
He responds.

Whether that masculine energy shows up through a man, money, business, or even God Himself—you are in relationship with it. And it follows the tone you set.

But most women were never taught this.
So instead, you find yourself…

Swallowing your truth to keep the peace—even as your chest tightens and your needs go unmet

Getting sharp or cold when you’re scared—not because you want to, but because you don’t feel safe

Oversharing with a man who hasn’t earned your heart—hoping he’ll finally “get it”

Managing every detail of the connection—initiating, planning, holding space—while quietly resenting the weight you carry

Feeling abandoned when he pulls away—not realizing you’ve been energetically chasing just to feel chosen

It’s not your fault. You were never shown another way.

But here’s the shift:
When you learn how to embody the feminine tone—safe in your body, anchored in your heart—everything changes.

 You’ll notice men leaning in without you pushing.
 Opportunities and provision flowing toward you without you striving.
 Your marriage, your relationships, even your prayers… met with presence and pursuit.

This masterclass is where it begins.

A 2-hour masterclass for the woman who’s done waiting for love to just happen—and is ready to shift her energy, reclaim her feminine design, and embody the woman who is effortlessly pursued and deeply chosen.

 

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What is Polarity — and Why Does It Matter?

  

Polarity isn’t about playing games or following gender rules.
It’s about honoring God’s biological and spiritual design for how the masculine and feminine were meant to experience union together.

The masculine is directional: he leads, gives, protects, provides, pursues.
The feminine is receptive: she invites, radiates, responds, inspires—and sets the tone.

But when you’re the one always initiating, planning, carrying the emotional weight, and keeping things afloat…you’ve stepped out of your feminine design.

You’ve entered an inverted relationship.
Where you reach while he retreats.
Where you manage the connection while he stays passive, distant, or disengaged.

And whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between… you feel the ache of it.

  • You start to resent him, but swallow it down because you also feel responsible.
  • You wonder why you feel so alone in something that’s supposed to be shared.
  • You question if he’s the problem—or if you are.
  • You miss the days when you felt deeply desired.
  • And secretly, you fear that if you stop holding it all together, the whole thing might collapse.

That is the loss of polarity.
And it’s not your fault—you were never shown another way.

But here’s the good news: polarity can be restored.

In this masterclass, you’ll see exactly how you got here—even if your intentions were pure— and how to shift your energy so you can soften, receive, and watch the masculine rise to meet you… without you forcing a thing.

In this masterclass, you'll discover:  

 

✔ What it really means that “the feminine sets the tone” — and why the masculine can’t help but respond to your energy

✔ How “helping,” rescuing, or even just “being nice” can accidentally flip the relationship upside down

✔ The nervous system patterns (freeze, fawn, fight, flight, collapse) that silently keep you stuck in unhealthy dynamics — and how to rewire them

✔ Why emotional self-abandonment is so common for strong, high-capacity women — and the exact shift to come back home to yourself

✔ What true feminine embodiment is (hint: it’s not about being quiet, low maintenance, or pretending you don’t have needs)

✔ Why it feels like you’re doing all the emotional work — and the path to finally laying that burden down

✔ How to feel, express, and soften — without losing your voice, your boundaries, or your power

✔ Why this isn’t a trick to “get the man” — but a sacred initiation into maturity, embodiment, and co-creation with God and the masculine

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This class is not about manipulating men.


This is not about performing “femininity” to get a man.


This is about becoming the woman who life, love, and the masculine naturally respond to.

 

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A Word From Me (About You)

I’m Yelena, and I’ve been where you are. High-capacity. Faithful. Emotionally aware. Doing all the “right” things… and still wondering why love felt so hard.

Deep down, I longed to be chosen without having to work for it. I didn’t need more effort—I needed embodiment. And when I finally stopped over-functioning and started healing the patterns underneath, everything shifted.

I went from attracting passivity and confusion… to receiving clear, steady, masculine love.
From feeling invisible… to being deeply seen, pursued, and adored—without having to prove myself.

Now, I’m married to a man who loves me boldly, provides for our family, and leads with integrity. Together we’re raising our beautiful baby boy in the kind of safety I once only prayed for.

And I’m here to help you break the same painful patterns—to become the woman who sets the tone and receives the love you were designed for.

Because you’re not too much. You’re not too late. And the love you long for is closer than you think.

Yelena Sedgwick ♥

Let's be real..

 

 

You don’t need more information.
You need an initiation.

You’ve outgrown the blame, the waiting, and the chasing.
You’re ready to embody the woman who is pursued, provided for, and protected—without having to earn it.

Because deep down, what you truly long for is to…

Feel the strength of a man’s presence so secure your body softens and your guard finally drops
Be led with confidence and care—not because you’re weak, but because you are deeply valued
Be pursued with clarity, consistency, and devotion—no guessing, no proving, no begging
Be supported in the places you’ve always carried alone—and finally feel what it’s like to lean back and be caught
Be chosen—not for how much you give or perform, but for the radiant woman you are when you’re at rest

This isn’t just another class.
It’s a doorway—
the moment you begin to embody the woman who sets the tone, shifts the dynamic from the inside out, and watches as love, life, and the masculine rise to meet her.

I'm Ready

You’re Invited to the Masterclass:

The Feminine Sets the Tone

 

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✔ 2-Hour On-Demand Masterclass

✔ Foundational Teaching on Feminine Energy, Polarity, and Relational Dynamics

✔ How to Shift Out of Over-Giving and Into Receiving—Without Games, Guilt, or Performance

✔ Emotional, Spiritual & Nervous System Tools to Reset the Tone of Your Relationships

Printable Reference Guide to help you return to and embody this work anytime

Step into the room. The initiation begins the moment you say yes—
and the masculine will rise to meet you.
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 Frequently Asked Questions

This is for the woman who:

 

✔ Is single, dating, married, or somewhere in between—but feels stuck in her feminine energy

✔ Has been over-functioning in love, life, or marriage—and is exhausted from carrying it all

✔ Wants to stop leading, fixing, and initiating… and finally learn how to receive

✔ Desires deep connection but keeps attracting passivity, confusion, or inconsistency

✔ Is emotionally self-aware, yet still feels unseen, unsupported, or disconnected from her body

✔ Is ready to experience what true feminine embodiment actually feels like—beyond aesthetics or theory

✔ Knows love was never meant to be about waiting, striving, or “hoping it just works out”

You won’t be given formulas, tricks, or pressure.
You’ll be given truth. A mirror.
And a path back to yourself.

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This is not for the woman who:

 

✘ Wants to argue about roles, gender, or submission instead of doing the inner work

✘ Chooses to stay in victim energy rather than step into her power as a co-creator in love

✘ Is looking for quick tips or surface hacks to “get the guy” without shifting her energy

✘ Feels safer blaming men than examining her own patterns

✘ Isn’t ready to take radical responsibility for the energy she’s been leading with

The Feminine Sets the Tone

 

A Masterclass That Will Forever Change the Way You Love

 

 ONE-TIME PAYMENT OF:

$1297

$249


2-Hour On-Demand Masterclass

✔ Foundational Teaching on Feminine Energy, Polarity, and Relational Dynamics

✔ How to Shift Out of Over-Giving and Into Receiving—Without Games, Guilt, or Performance

✔ Emotional, Spiritual & Nervous System Tools to Reset the Tone of Your Relationships

Printable Reference Guide to help you return to and embody this work anytime

Step into the room. The initiation begins the moment you say yes—
and the masculine will rise to meet you.
Join Now
Secure Checkout
All sales are final. No cancellations. No refunds.