You need the actual shift- the one that happens in your beliefs, in your body, and in your nervous system- so that receiving no longer feels dangerous or selfish, but natural, safe, and holy.

That’s exactly what this 70+ page ebook, Good Girl to Guilt-Free, is designed to walk you through- page by page, question by question- so you don’t keep living a life that looks “put together” on the outside while you feel empty, unseen, and overrun on the inside.

Here's the truth you were never taught:

Here’s the truth you were never taught:

“Good” was never supposed to mean self-erased.

Somewhere along the way, you learned that being a godly, loving woman meant taking up less space, needing less, and always being the one who understands.
Not because God asked that of you- 
but because your nervous system decided: “This is how I stay safe and loved.”

Your body remembers every time you got praised for being easy, flexible, low-maintenance.
It remembers the looks, the comments, the subtle shame when you were “too much,” too emotional, too honest.

So now, your nervous system speaks louder than your words:

• You say, “It’s okay, no worries,” while your chest tightens and your heart sinks.

• You insist, “I’m fine, I don’t need anything,” when what you really want is someone to notice you’re tired too.

• You apologize for crying, for asking a question, for taking up time.

• You downplay what you want- “It’s just a silly desire”- and call it humility, when really it’s fear of being seen.

• You feel a wave of guilt after small joys- buying yourself something nice, taking a nap, letting someone treat you- like goodness has to be “balanced out” by more doing.

It’s not your fault. You were never shown another way.
No one taught you the difference between Holy Spirit conviction and learned guilt.
No one taught you that being provided for, cared for, and delighted in can be just as holy as serving.

But here’s the shift:

When you start unlearning those “good girl” rules and remember that you were created to both give and receive… everything changes.

✨ You stop apologizing for your needs and start honoring them without drama or shame.
✨ You let yourself enjoy rest, beauty, pleasure, and support- without waiting for the other shoe to drop.
✨ You feel closer to God, not because you’re doing more, but because you finally believe He’s not disappointed in your humanness.
✨ You become a woman whose life no longer runs on quiet resentment and invisible burnout, but on peace, clarity, and true reciprocity.

That’s exactly what this 70+ page ebook, Good Girl to Guilt-Free, is here to walk you through- so “being good” doesn’t cost you your voice, your desires, or the life God actually meant for you to live. 

What This Really Is: Your Feminine Capacity & The Masculine

Here’s the truth you were never taught:

As the feminine, you are always in direct relationship with the masculine.
Not just with a man- but with God, with money, with provision, with opportunities, with people who want to help you.

The way you receive from the masculine in any form is shaped by your feminine capacity:
your nervous system, your identity, what you believe you’re allowed to have.

So when you’re stuck in “good girl” guilt, 
you don’t just feel weird receiving from a man…
you feel weird receiving from God, from money, from life itself.

You pray for love, but feel panic when someone actually pursues you.
You pray for financial breakthrough, but feel guilty the moment money comes in and rush to overgive, overspend, or prove you deserve it.
You pray for help, but automatically say, “No, it’s okay, I’ve got it,” when someone offers.

It’s not that the masculine isn’t responding.
It’s that your system doesn’t yet feel safe to let it in.

When you do the internal work in Good Girl to Guilt-Free,
when you soften your nervous system, heal the receivership wounds, and upgrade your identity from “over-responsible good girl” to “woman who is safe to be provided for”, everything you draw in begins to shift:

✨ You start to feel God as a Father who delights in blessing you, not just using you
✨ Men show up clearer, more intentional, more grounded… and you don’t chase, over-function, or perform to keep their interest
✨ Money begins to feel like support, not a test- checks land, invoices are paid, and instead of spiraling in guilt, you breathe and receive
✨ Opportunities, invitations, and help start appearing, and you notice that you’re no longer pushing them away with, “It’s okay, I can handle it”

You’ll be able to look at your life and see the difference:
the kind of men reaching out, the doors that open, the way people treat you, the ease with which provision finds you.

And you’ll know where it started:
with you.
With your decision to stop living ruled by guilt.
With your choice to rewire your nervous system and heal your feminine receivership wound.

Because when a woman embodies her true feminine capacity-
when her body feels safe to receive, her heart feels worthy to be chosen, and her spirit trusts that goodness is not a trap-
the masculine in all its forms (God, men, money, jobs, opportunities, community) can finally do what it was designed to do:

Show up, provide, protect, pursue, and pour into her-
Often in ways even better than she dared to ask for.

I’m Yelena- a wife, a mom, and a woman who used to pray for the life I’m living now.

But I didn’t start here. I was the helper, the fixer, the “good girl” who stayed low-maintenance, easy, responsible- earning love by having it all together.

I begged God for love, but my body didn’t feel safe being seen, held, or chosen. I wanted a man to lead, but I did everything myself. I wanted to be adored, but I felt guilty the second goodness came toward me.

Everything changed when I began healing my receivership: when I stopped performing, let myself rest, told the truth about what I wanted, and allowed myself to be cared for.

That’s when God started sending what my heart had always longed for. That’s when I met my husband- a masculine, grounded, generous man who loves to lead, provide, and feel me in my softness and joy.

Now I help high-capacity, Spirit-led women like you become emotionally and spiritually available for the love, support, and overflow you were designed for. The life you desire isn’t a fantasy, it's meant to be lived abundantly now.

Yelena Sedgwick ♥

You know the truth...

You don’t need more information.
You need a shift in who you believe you’re allowed to be.

You’ve outgrown the guilt, the over-explaining, the “I’m fine, I’ve got it.”
You’re ready to become the woman who is cared for, considered, and provided for- without having to earn it or apologize for it.

Because deep down, what you truly long for is to…

✨ Say yes to love that actually shows up for you- texts that don’t leave you guessing, dates he plans and follows through on, a man who notices when you’re tired and leans in instead of pulling away

✨ Feel money come in without panic or self-sabotage- a paycheck, a random refund, a client payment landing and you let yourself breathe and receive instead of instantly feeling guilty, irresponsible, or unworthy

✨ Be helped in the everyday moments- groceries carried to the car, someone watching your kids, a friend insisting on treating you to coffee, and instead of arguing, you smile, say “thank you,” and let it land

✨ Experience random blessings and actually enjoy them- a gift, a compliment, a door opened, a favor offered- and your first response is warmth and gratitude, not shrinking and deflecting

✨ Have people notice the difference in you- friends saying, “You seem softer, happier,” your mom or sister commenting, “You don’t look so stressed anymore,” coworkers no longer automatically assuming you’ll take on the extra shift

✨ Attract relationships that finally match your heart- men who are clear, consistent, and intentional; friendships where you’re not the default therapist but are met, poured into, and protected too

✨ Live in your body differently- less tight-chested, less knotted in your stomach, more regulated, more at peace… actually feeling safe to rest, to feel, to be seen as the woman you are when you’re not performing

This isn’t just another ebook.

It’s your key a life where you stop living as the over-responsible “good girl” and start living as the woman who can receive love, money, help, and blessing without guilt…
the woman whose very presence says, “I am worthy to be cared for,” and watches as God, people, and life begin to respond accordingly.